okay, i know this isnt really my business, but i'd like to say something. yeah yeah, yiwei was the one who treated y'all badly. so what? arent you doing the same thing to her now? its easy to be the victim, but difficult to be the"villian" .
even if you dont want to forgive her or give her another chance, please dont stoop so low as to draw her out and scrawl all over her. you're going too far. she wants to start over. she knows where she went wrong and she seriously wants to change. if you say chances have to be earnd, then why cant you give it to her? she blames herself for this. no doubt you'd say it is, but dont tell me you gave her an honest chance. yeah i know i dont really know what's been happening, but i would like to tell you. she has been defending you. not once when she talked to me has she been bitter about you girls treating her like that. dont gang up and think that its her "fair punishment".
do you even know the meaning of friends? friends forgive and forget. they give their "wayward" friends another chance. if people didnt forgive and forget the whole world would be full of crooks. ever heard of the yellow ribbon project? when people want to change, you take them seriously. not say that they dont desreve the chance and let them just rot. are you guys even friends at all. you think you know how to deal with this but you dont.
she told me not to tell anyone or do anything cos she didnt want to make y'all more pissed at her. but i cant help it. sry yiwei. i know you didnt want this.
i hope you read this, even though i know you guys dont really read my blog. think about this. would you want to be treated like this even though you were the one treating people like shit, but when you wanted to change, your "friends" didnt give a damn.
Saturday, October 07, 2006