i think this post has a little too much information and i suppose it was just a wrong clash of moods, therefore i'm just summarising the main points. don't want nosey little parkers in here do we. besides, the problem's been resolved, pretty much. also i think i over-reacted a little bit cos i have this long private post in livejournal which was dedicated to releasing my pent up tension. no need to show ugly affairs to the entire world. this is, after all, a public blog.
so. here it is.